Papi’s answer hit the big reasons for sure. I’ve felt most of them myself. Putting on gold chains only boosts my mood for the short term, but to enhance my self esteem, I have to work on my inside, not put something on my outside. HUGS!
Maybe DD fantasizes about or gets crushes on inaccessible people because DD sees them as having figured out how to get and be in a relationship and he hasn’t yet gotten there in lifIt might feel as if he could be safe with someone who knows how to be in a relationship.
As my comadre RuPaul states at the end of her show, "How in the Hell are you gonna love somebody if you can't love yourself? Can I get an Amen??!!"
So true So true
Papi’s answer hit the big reasons for sure. I’ve felt most of them myself. Putting on gold chains only boosts my mood for the short term, but to enhance my self esteem, I have to work on my inside, not put something on my outside. HUGS!
Lovely work, Papi
oof i needed this lesson today. thank you papi!
Maybe DD fantasizes about or gets crushes on inaccessible people because DD sees them as having figured out how to get and be in a relationship and he hasn’t yet gotten there in lifIt might feel as if he could be safe with someone who knows how to be in a relationship.